Empowered Feminist Trained To Be An Object - Mi... -
She lives in that hyphen—the “mi…”—the unfinished syllable between mirror and mind , between misogyny and misfit . Some days, she calls that hyphen freedom: the refusal to resolve the contradiction. Other days, she calls it exhaustion.
But she’s still here. Still reading. Still marching. Still catching her reflection and, once in a while, winking at the woman inside the object, because that woman—sharp, soft, furious, trained—is the only one who knows the whole story. Empowered feminist trained to be an object - mi...
She was trained to be a mirror—reflecting what others needed to see. But she’s still here
The feminist inside her says: You are not an ornament. The trained body whispers: But you are a beautiful one. Still catching her reflection and, once in a
The split lived in her sternum.
Empowerment, she learned, could wear the mask of submission. “Choose to be looked at,” the coaches said. “Then it’s not objectification; it’s agency .” So she worked twice as hard. Feminist theory by day. Posture, pout, and performance by night. Her mind grew sharp as a scalpel; her body learned to go soft on command.
She read de Beauvoir by flashlight under the covers. She marched with signs that said My Body, My Choice . She could name every fallacy in a patriarchy-apologist’s argument before he finished his second sentence.