“If you can’t shake the husband’s hand afterward and genuinely mean ‘thank you,’ you’re not ready for this lifestyle. His surrender is not weakness. It is the entire engine of her freedom.”
That’s the axis of healthy cuckolding: The Third: Not a Unicorn, A Guest Star We’ve retired the term "bull" in many modern circles. Why? Because language shapes respect. Today’s successful third (or “the Guest”) understands his role: he is not competing with the husband. He is collaborating with the couple. Cuckold Life Magazine
— Jason Cole, Senior Editor “Compersion vs. Jealousy: How to Train Your Brain to Feel Both.” Plus: Our annual “Guest Stars of the Year” reader awards. “If you can’t shake the husband’s hand afterward