That is where the story lives.

Nothing tests a biological bond like an outsider. The spouse who sees the family’s secrets; the fiancé who tries to change traditions. This character is your reader’s avatar, asking the dangerous question: "Why does everyone pretend this is normal?" Moving Beyond the "Happy Family" Trope The most common mistake in writing family drama is assuming the family must be either entirely functional (boring) or entirely evil (cartoonish).

Tap into that backstory. Spill the wine. Forget the pleasantries.